As part of the procedural requirements to get a lawsuit going, you must either be the server or the servee. In family law cases, sometimes you are served with more than one document at a time. For instance, you could be served not only with the petition, but also with a notice of hearing. The key is what do you once you are served. If anything, never just sweep it under the rug. While it is something that you do not want to be troubled with, unfortunately, the process has begun and now you are forced to deal with it. If you do not take some form of action, a default judgment will be obtained against you. In divorce and child custody cases, this is especially problematic. It is either your property, debts, and or child on the line. You do not want to miss your opportunity to fight.
Also, many people operate under the misconception that you can do this alone. The Texas Family Code is very complex. Not only that, there are procedural issues to consider in the Texas Rules of Civil Procedure. There might even be some criminal issues mixed in which would be covered, in part, by the Texas Penal Code. Given that, the very task of filing an answer to the petition can be daunting and intimidating. Where do you get the document? What is an answer? How do I file an answer? These are just a few of the introductory questions.
The key is to never do this alone, or what is called pro se. An example of how this could go south quickly is in a recent appellate decision rendered by the Dallas Fifth District Court of Appeals in Friedman v. Friedman. In this case, the woman filed a petition for divorce and had her husband served. He did not do anything, and the woman obtained a default judgment and the judge signed a final decree of divorce. The husband did not file an answer and he had been properly served, thus the judge could do this. The final decree of divorce dispensed with the marital property and debts. This was not enough for Mr. Friedman to learn his lesson, because he then filed his own appeal in the form of a motion for new trial and drafts the document himself.